Thoughts of the Week: July 7, 2023
Stop treating humility like a badge of honor - it's holding you back.
This might be an unpopular opinion, but here’s something I want you to think about as we head into the weekend: Humility is *not* a virtue.
In fact, humility is likely keeping you small…but that’s not something people like to talk about. People are afraid of being seen as “overly confident,” but it’s important to remember that there’s a MASSIVE difference between arrogance and confidence.
So what does this look like in practice?
Instead of downplaying your accomplishments, own them. Do big things and take credit for them — just don’t be a jerk about it. Even if you go to the extreme, even if that confidence ends up being “inflated,” it’s important to remember that overconfidence is far less destructive than self-doubt.
Own your strengths. Lean into them. Know what you’re capable of, take off the brakes, and go for it.
On The Mountaintop: Loneliness, Success, and Your Rise. This journey can be lonely, but this edition is all about learning how to move forward anyway.
Creating Your Own Momentum. Too many people wait for momentum to appear. If you want to make your own, start by reading this.
Raise Your Bar. The bar you hold for yourself and others is far more important than you might think, and it plays a critical role in building the life you want.
The Mindset of “No Plan B”. The story you tell yourself matters more than you think, which is why you need to stop giving yourself cognitive outs.
1. Audacity saves time. You want to go big? Make some big moves.
2. No matter your place in life, here’s a 90-second reframe on failure from Sara Blakely, the CEO of Spanx, that everyone should hear.
3. Self-belief creates titans. It’s time to stop doubting yourself and take what you want instead.
Reframing failure as not trying vs the outcome, looking for the gifts, the amazing nuggets that you wouldn't want to pass up - excellent advice, and something that I can start doing right now. Immensely helpful and game changing. Thank you for sharing, as always!